Or maybe they dumped you, but now they suddenly have an extreme interest in you and won’t stop texting. So what gives? Most likely, your ex still sees potential in you two as a couple, and they’re trying to gauge your interest. If your ex keeps popping back into your life, they’re testing the waters to see if there’s any chance of reigniting your relationship. Why Is My Ex Checking Up On Me?...
When it comes to dating, it’s a rare and beautiful thing to come across someone new and instantly feel a connection. But after that initial connection, it is important to understand your partner’s personality type in order to get involved in a deep and meaningful relationship with that person. For example, if you are an extrovert, there are a few things that you need to know about dating an introvert....
Most of the items were things — the kind of house I desired, the car I wanted, furniture and clothes I coveted. On some level, I believed having the trappings of a successful life would translate into creating the feelings of a happy life. Once I accumulated those things, I would have a fulfilling life. My perspective at the time was flawed. I didn’t realize how fleeting the satisfaction of attainment can be....
But then there are those books that speak directly to your soul and stay with you long after you’re finished reading. You can easily remember the books that have had a profound impact on your life or have inspired an “aha” moment. These 27 books fall into that category. Each is a joy to read, interesting to ponder, and will ultimately change something inside of you. Here are 27 of the top life-changing books to inspire you: 1....
She’s a “sigma female,” one of the rarest of all personality types. Before you object, we understand that applying primate dominance hierarchy standards to humans isn’t scientific. After all, homo sapiens have evolved. But learning about personality types is fun and sometimes provides insight into yourself and others. What Is A Sigma Female? Social and personality hierarchies come from ethology — the study of animal behavior. Truth be told, most ethologists caution people about applying dominance frameworks to the human condition, which is objectively more complex than other mammalian communities....
Maybe you keep a few quotes handy that serve as good mottos to live by, but you haven’t really identified any one of them as a motto you personally identify with. If you’re thinking, “Yep, that’s me,” why not consider the sampling of life mottos in this article and choose to create one that speaks to you and motivates you — more than the others — to take action? What do you have to lose — other than those moments of paralysis and indecision that go with not remembering the kind of person you want to be?...
And there are so many ways to share them: Create a Mother’s Day card for your sister, adding a favorite sisters quote.Create and share a social media graphic with a favorite sister quote and share it on a social media channel you both use, tagging your sister to make sure she sees it.Have a mug made with a favorite quote and fill it with a favorite treat for your sister’s birthday, for Mother’s Day, or just because....
The covert part means they’re usually under the radar for most people — but not for the people they live with. Sons and daughters of covert narcissistic mothers often don’t realize until much later what their mothers’ “parenting style” has cost them. It’s not unusual to find you’re still dealing with complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD) due to your mother’s narcissistic behavior. But how do you recognize that behavior for what it is?...
Psychologists define cynicism as the inclination to view people as motivated solely by self-interest. As a result, the inability to see good in others undermines a cynic’s ability to flourish. Cynics often recognize this personality trait in themselves. Whenever you evaluate a situation, your cynical nature rises up immediately. Why Am I So Cynical? This reflex sometimes develops during childhood. Being wounded by earlier interactions with family members and peers probably caused you to project those negative outcomes on future situations....
Often a great way to find your passion is to begin by first seeking work that makes a difference and provides a sense of purpose and meaning. When you’re confused about what your life passion may be, and you don’t know what excites you or fills you with enthusiasm, you can find your way to the work you love by doing something that deeply moves or inspires you. Ultimately, doing something that makes a difference AND that you feel passionate about is the optimal outcome....
They wake up with a low-level sense of dread, anxiety, or sadness. They go to their jobs and feel under-utilized, unappreciated, and underwhelmed. When they get home, they feel mentally and physically exhausted, with just enough energy to take care of the kids, fix a meal, and plop on the couch to watch a few hours of TV. Then they wake up and do it all over again. Even if this doesn’t describe you exactly, I’m sure you can relate....
Whether going through a difficult time or just feeling stressed and distracted by your regular routine, it’s not always easy to stop and enjoy the little moments. Finding something to make you smile requires paying attention and being more mindful as you go through your day. Once you deliberately start to look, you might be surprised by the things you find to make you smile. The Science Behind What Makes People Smile According to a report in BritishCouncil....
Are you wondering what makes them that way? Maybe you’ve noticed manipulative behavior in someone you always thought to be “the nicest person.” In either case, we’ve got you covered. Further down, you’ll find a list of the key traits of a manipulative character. From there, you can decide whether this person fits the description—and what you can do about it. What Is Manipulative Behavior? Manipulative people who pretend to be nice are doing so to get an advantage over you....
It’s a common misconception that the term “soulmate” is reserved for romantic partners, but you can also have completely platonic soulmates! Contrary to popular belief, you can even have more than one soulmate. If you’ve never heard of platonic soul connections, you’re probably wondering what it means or how to know if you’ve found one. What Is a Platonic Soulmate? When most people hear the word soulmate, they think of a romantic partner....
Every couple experiences its fair share of ups and downs, but it’s important to recognize when things are getting out of balance. If you’re feeling disconnected from your spouse, it can be easy to become overwhelmed and feel hopeless. But don’t despair. There are plenty of ways to reconnect and strengthen your bond with your spouse or partner. So if you’re ready to start taking steps toward strengthening your connection again – read on!...
If you’re asking yourself this question, chances are you’ll have mixed feelings about any quick answer. Maybe you can make things work with an emotionally detached husband. But do you really want to? And is this one of those articles that put the responsibility for saving the relationship squarely on your shoulders? Short answer? No. Read on to learn whether your husband truly is emotionally unavailable, what that does to you, and what you can do about it?...
Comments that sound cheery but are laced with poison are called backhanded compliments. People might throw out these comments because they want to take you down a notch. Their motives could include self-aggrandizement or a desire to undermine your confidence. On the other hand, someone who cares about you might make this error without realizing it. Your friend wants to say something nice, but an unflattering truth gets tangled up in the words....
You probably know someone with an impressive collection of comic books, vinyl records, or vintage something or other. And if you’re not looking at those collections and thinking, “But why?” you might be interested in one of the collecting hobbies listed below. Once you’ve decided what to collect, you’ll find plenty of places to look for it. 21 Things to Collect as a Fun Hobby Enjoy this list of the most popular collecting hobbies, and be honest about which ones appeal to you....
In fact, studies have proven that those with confidence make more money, have happier relationships, and are generally more successful than those who don’t. When you’re confident in yourself, you believe in your abilities and maintain a sense of competence in everything you do. Having low self-confidence undermines your faith in your ability to be successful and competent. Low self-confidence manifests itself in a steady feeling of inferiority that can prevent you from making progress and accomplishing your goals in life....
When he used the popular idiom, “Actions speak louder than words” in the form we use today, he reminds us that it’s not what we say but what we do that reveals our character. Words are cheap and have become a dime a dozen in recent years. You don’t know whose words to believe or even what they mean sometimes. It’s only when someone follows up their words with matching actions that we can trust them....
