They provide support when you need it, participate in joyful moments, and satisfy the basic human need for connection. Unfortunately, not all friendships last forever. And since most people won’t come right out and tell you the friendship is over, it’s up to you to read between the lines and know the signs someone isn’t your friend. Let’s work doing just that. What Does It Mean If Someone Doesn’t Want to Be Your Friend?...
And it’s true! Studies show that growing up in a safe home under the care of one or more loving and engaged guardians is ideal. But TV and reality are often leagues apart, and in the real world, many children must contend with emotionally distant parents. So today, we’re looking at the signs of detached parenting and how to deal with it. What Is an Emotionally Unavailable Parent? Emotionally unavailable parents don’t meet their children’s psychological needs and can’t provide the comfort and validation needed for proper mental health growth....
You like him a lot, but he’s hopping from hot to cold and sending mixed signals. It’s been a few months — maybe longer — but the relationship isn’t progressing as you’d like. And now you’re wondering if he’s as into you as you are him. Today, we’re unpacking what it feels like when a man doesn’t want you. Let’s dive in. Why He Doesn’t Want a Relationship Love isn’t like math....
Though they may not say it out loud, they consider themselves perfect and act as though you are causing all the problems in the relationship. You thought you were a good partner, but now you’re not so sure. If so, you might be a victim of gaslighting, a form of emotional abuse. Read on for gaslighting phrases in relationships that narcissists commonly say. What Are The Kind of Things Gaslighters Say?...
And what exactly is a morning meditation mantra, anyway? You know the value of meditation as a daily habit. But your mind wanders so much, from the beginning and throughout your meditation time, you’d like some help setting and maintaining your focus. Here’s where a mantra of the day can help. Speak one of the morning chants in this post before and after meditation, and you’ll give your mind a rallying point....
Finding an escape doesn’t always mean disconnecting, but rather, finding a passion that helps you connect more to yourself and what you enjoy. Passion projects are just that. They allow you to explore your creativity by spending free time and energy devoted to what you love, whether it’s a charitable cause or a creative outlet. What is a Passion Project and How to Choose Yours A passion project is an activity or endeavor you pursue because it inspires you and gives you deep satisfaction, fulfillment, and engagement....
Heart disease reduces blood circulation, which leaves fluids to pool in the lower extremities. Vascular damage caused by diabetes produces swollen diabetic feet. Bone and tendon injuries or arthritis cause painful foot inflammation. In addition to medical treatment, you may choose to manage foot swelling, also known as edema, by selecting stretchy shoes for swollen feet. They are easier to put on and provide soothing comfort. Their Velcro closures let you customize the fit and, if desired, apply light pressure that could combat swelling....
And how can you know for sure if a woman you know is attracted to you? Whether you feel the same or not isn’t the issue here. Once you know how to tell if a woman is attracted to another woman, it’s up to you to decide what to do if you pick up the signs in a woman you know. Let’s start by answering some questions you might have....
If you fly on commercial planes, you’ve heard this statement from a flight attendant many times, instructing you to take care of yourself and prioritize your safety first so you have the ability to help someone else. This is necessary for survival on a flight, but it’s also an essential activity for daily life — practice self-care first. It sounds nice, but in reality, it’s difficult to follow through on a self-care routine....
So glad you’re here! We’ve combed through all the podcasts about psychology we could find to create this list. Because everyone can benefit from getting better acquainted with the way their minds work. What’s really behind your most life-changing decisions? And what breakthrough discoveries will you make about yourself by this time next year? What to Look for in Good Psychology Podcasts Before we dive into the list, it helps to know what qualities to look for in a psychology podcast....
You see them used interchangeably often enough. Values and morals both guide your behavior. But something tells you they’re not the same. One feels more native to you than the other. One of them feels more like the product of your environment. Which is which? And what other differences separate the two? Read on to find out. What Are Morals and Values? The morals you learned guide your behavior as a member of society....
Part of you thinks, “Why do some people lack compassion?” But it’s not a total lack of empathy that’s the problem. It’s selective empathy — or selective compassion. And it’s far more dangerous. It’s also sneaky. And we’re all guilty of it to some degree. So, what can you do about it? What Is Selective Empathy? Selective empathy is empathy restricted to particular groups — typically those you belong to or identify as similar to yourself....
And it’s as if you’ve always known each other. Yet you can’t recall ever meeting them before. You’ve heard a little about both twin flames and soulmates, but you’re not sure which one this person is—or whether it even matters. Let’s say it does, though. How do you tell the difference? What Are Twin Flames? A simple twin flame definition describes it as two souls who are each half of one or mirrors of each other, which is why they’re also called “mirror souls....
It was painful for both of you because there really was chemistry and connection between you. Maybe even love. You’ve pondered the idea of getting back together, but your ex is acting weird. You’ve seen him at parties or run into him at Starbucks, and he’s trying to act distant and cool. But you know him, and there’s something behind the facade that says he still loves you (or at least isn’t entirely over you)....
What reasons does he give for ghosting you — and then for coming back? And do his answers match his behavior, as far as you know? Is there anyone else whose testimony you trust to shed light on his character? What does it really mean when he ghosted you and comes back? Do Guys Come Back After Ghosting You? If you’re here because you’re thinking, “He ghosted me and then came back,” then, clearly, it’s possible....
After all, your career has been with you for decades. Choosing the right time to retire is a big decision — one that requires careful planning, especially if you’re planning on retiring early. But how do you know when it’s time to retire? As with any major life event, emotional signs can indicate when it’s time for an exit strategy from the office. 13 Emotional Signs You Need to Retire Sometimes the signs you are ready to retire aren’t as clear as you might hope....
Your desire for love is normal. People want and need human connection, including romance. However, your need for love does not automatically mean that someone will return the love. If you’re hoping to break the cycle of giving your heart only to have it rejected, then you need to learn how to not fall in love. Learning to protect your heart doesn’t mean you’ll never find love. But developing this skill prevents you from setting yourself up for disappointment....
They may not be into public displays of affection, but a dash of private mushiness is almost always A-OK. Sometimes, making him shed a tear can bring you closer together. To that end, we’ve written 17 love poems that will make your boyfriend cry. Feel free to use them for yourself — or tailor some tweaks to suit your man. How Do I Write a Love Poem to My Boyfriend?...
It’s frustrating; we get it. But don’t worry! There are dozens of subtle ways to nudge him into making that initial move to ask you out. We’re about to unravel 17 of the most under-the-radar strategies for getting yourself out there and finally getting that first date. From the classic flirty banter to more daring moves like giving him your number and walking away, this is your inside scoop on putting your charming self out there without going too far or coming on too strong....
More good news? YouTube is full of must-watch documentaries you can enjoy for free. Just pick one and settle in, whether you’re watching alone or with someone equally curious (or someone who loves you very, very much). But where do you start? What are the best YouTube documentaries — or at least a good starter list? We’re so glad you asked. 18 of the Best YouTube Documentaries If you’re looking for a YouTube documentary that won’t punish you for the time spent, have a listen to any of those listed in this post....
