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At that age, our answers are often simple: doctor, fireman, scientist. Once we get to college or start working, our outlook on the future becomes more complicated. Our goals are less oriented towards purpose but rather towards success. However, to live happily, our views of success should align with a sense of purpose. There are many different kinds of purposes of life to pursue, but it’s essential to find something that brings joy and fulfillment to your life....

And you want to know if the universe is telling you something about a guy. Because while he seems random, he doesn’t feel that way. Nothing about this guy feels random. He’s like no one you’ve ever met or are ever likely to meet again. The universe could be telling you, “Psst! This guy!” It sounds a bit far-fetched, says your old self. Your new self is more open-minded. It’s seen things....

You enjoy the benefits of a relationship while getting to know and connect with his children. However, it can also be difficult if you’ve never been in this type of relationship before. Don’t worry; we’re here to help. Let’s discuss 15 things you need to consider when dating a dad. Keep these tips in mind, and you’ll be able to navigate this tricky situation easily. What Are the Rules for Dating a Man with a Child?...

So what happens when your sex life is suffering? This situation can be upsetting for both partners. It will eventually cause a rift to grow between you if ignored. Maybe you’re wondering how you can bring passion and desire back into your relationship and sex life. If you’re not sure how to be a good lover, read on for fifteen ways you can improve intimacy in your relationship. What Does It Really Mean to Be An Amazing Lover?...

Because, at this point, you’re tired of feeling emotionally drained. You’re ready to stop ruminating, catastrophizing, and wallowing in your own insecurity. It’s time to heal! So today, we’re breaking down what cheating does to a woman’s self-esteem, and then we’ll review 19 tips for overcoming infidelity. Why Am I So Insecure After Being Cheated On? Does cheating make you insecure? Yep, it certainly does. But here’s the other part that some people may find surprising: according to a study published by the National Library of Medicine, insecurity is also more likely to cause infidelity....

If only you could find an “Is he the one quiz” that would give you a clear “yes” or “no” answer. Shouldn’t someone get on that — maybe within the next day or so — and send you a link when it’s ready? How are you supposed to be sure he’s husband material without some help from those who’ve been where you are? It turns out there are some tell-tale signs you can look for....

We tend to focus on our negative qualities, letting them overshadow the good traits and behaviors we all possess. The shaming voice in our heads can make us forget who we really are. It’s high time, then, to find positive things to say about yourself. You need some practice to change the way you see your true self. We want to see you celebrating your wins because you have a right to be proud of yourself....

Others cozy up with a list of books long waiting to be read. And some celebrate by dancing the night away. Retirement is a huge milestone that looks different to everyone. But every person who’s about to retire needs to be honored and acknowledged. Whether you’re writing to a coworker or a friend, finding the right message to applaud their professional accomplishments can be quite difficult. To make things easier, we’ve curated 41 different ideas for retirement card messages that you can choose from....

Whether you are a CEO, an office worker, a teacher, a student, or anything in between, the most powerful force you have is your fired-up brain. However, many people find they don’t have the memory, mental clarity, focus, and concentration needed — even after a good night’s sleep — to be at their best. Until recently, it was thought that there was not much to be done about these issues....

Because you’re just not feeling it. Yet you don’t want to hurt this person. It’s not that you don’t think anyone could be happy dating them. In fact, you want them to find a happy relationship with someone. The sooner you set them free, the better for you both. How To Tell Someone You’re Not Interested Nicely You want to know how to tell a girl you’re not interested (or someone of a different gender identity), and you’re at a loss for what to say that will help you part on good terms....

Whatever’s going on between you, though, one of the best ways to deal with it is to write it out. Put your thoughts and feelings into words. Journaling is one way to do this. But writing a letter to your husband, who shares responsibility for your marriage, can get you even closer to a solution. So, where do you begin? How Do I Write An Emotional Letter to My Husband?...

But some days it’s harder to see the beauty through the fog of disappointment and self-doubt. That’s where positive affirmations for adults come in. Affirmations are positive statements you tell yourself every day to remind you of how far you’ve come, what you value most, and what you’re capable of achieving. They can also help you create a mindset for future goals and success. This post focuses on positive affirmations for men....

This motivation is why goal-setting journals have become so popular—and so easy to find. Looking for a journal with goal-setting writing prompts? You’ll find links to some of our favorites further down in this post. Looking for tips on journaling goals? You’ll find those here, too. Let’s get started! What Is A Goal Setting Journal? If you’re looking for a new journal, it helps to know what features will make it easy to use daily....

It is important to let others finish their thoughts completely unless you have something urgent to say. Interrupting expresses a lack of interest or respect and stops people from sharing the end of their story. Realizing you have an issue is a long way from a solution, but it’s a good start. It provides you with an opportunity to learn how to stop interrupting and modify your behavior in able to better connect with others....

A form of gaslighting, reactive abuse is when one person intentionally provokes another into intense, adverse reactions. It can be emotional, psychological, or physical — and in many cases, reactive abuse is an unconscious, reflexive instinct. Is it harmful? What types of people engage in the practice? Why do they do it? How can you stop the cycle of reactive abuse? Settle in — because we’re unpacking it all below....

Neither is it anyone’s birthright. Where does inner strength come from? It’s the fruit of battles fought, whether you won or made the best of a crushing loss.It comes from suffering that you’ve embraced rather than fled from and from grief that has made you kinder and more compassionate.It comes from realizing that you can’t expect others to change for you, so you make any necessary changes in yourself and keep loving them....

And just what exactly should you be willing to sacrifice? Some things, believe it or not, are off-limits. We’ll get into that. You’ve no doubt heard about making sacrifices in a relationship, and you’re allowed to wonder just how far that should go. What should you be willing to give up to make a relationship work? If you’re already bristling (just a bit), we’ll take that as a good sign....

You’re here Googling, “How to get rid of daughter’s controlling boyfriend.” Because you’ve had it with that loser. You know, the more time she spends with him, the tighter his grip. You also know she won’t respond well to an ultimatum from you. If your daughter’s boyfriend is controlling, chances are he’s already been undermining her attachment to her family and friends. So, yes, time is an issue. What can you do?...

You were about to do something scary but good. And then, you didn’t. And you’re thinking, “This is what I do. Just when I’m on the brink of accomplishing something amazing, I psych myself out.” That’s why you’re here — to learn how to not psych yourself out. Because you know your life could be better than it is. And you’re not afraid to learn how to make that happen....

After all, we’re told that men have uncontrollable sexual urges. So when a guy doesn’t try to sleep with you when you’re ready, the rejection can sting. The question,“Why is he waiting to sleep with me?” plagues your thoughts. But the biological and social truth of the matter is a lot more complicated. Despite what a certain insurance company may have you believe, male psyches have come a long way since the stone age, and there are many viable reasons why someone with the XY genotype may not want to sleep with you....