If you can’t, it might be time to put more effort into being outgoing. A recent study found that being outgoing in your youth can lead to a greater sense of happiness as you age. The results of the study showed that people who were friendly and sociable in their twenties ended up being happier with their lives over the following 40 or 50 years. But how can you just change from being a reserved person to being more gregarious and socially skilled?...
I was interviewed by this young blogger who has found his passion for writing, coaching, and teaching about passion and purpose. Before the interview he said, “I’m so excited about what I’m doing, I can’t sleep at night.” His face is lit up from within with his energy for his work. How amazing to figure out your passion when you’re still in your 20’s, before life steals away too much of your time, energy, and enthusiasm....
When you think of someone who is socially inept, you may not think of yourself. You probably figure since you have friends, you go out, you know people who like you, and you are good at your job, you must be socially skilled. Otherwise, wouldn’t you be a loner? Maybe, but here’s the thing. People who are inept in social situations are often unaware of the fact that they are this way because it’s uncomfortable for their friends talk to them about it....
It’s a common question, but a firm answer eludes most folks. Have you ever had the opportunity to meet with a professional matchmaker? On the surface, it may sound like an outdated, old-fashion practice — and in some ways it is — but there’s also wisdom to be mined from the ancient art of partnership. So today, in honor of the world’s professional cupids, we’re exploring 21 things to consider when determining what to look for in a romantic partner....
Why would you stay with someone who is causing you pain, making you afraid, or even damaging your children? Why would you put up with such despicable, destructive behavior from the person who is supposed to love you the most? It might seem clear to those who aren’t in an abusive relationship, but the reality is far from simple. Abusive relationships are like spider webs that trap the victim in a cycle of confusion, fear, hope, and despair....
Not only does it give you memories, but sucking the marrow out of life will make you wiser and kinder. As such, we’ve curated a list of 101 unique bucket list ideas. Our goal was to include options for all budgets. So pour a drink, pull up a chair, and let’s take a magical carpet through our bucket list ideas for couples. 101 Couples’ Bucket List Ideas To Check Off Your List 1....
Vision boards are powerful tools for helping people visualize their ambitions. They are collages of images and words designed to help make your goals seem more achievable. When you have a clear picture of what you hope to achieve, your mind starts to accept your plans as reality. This leads to greater focus, motivation, and confidence in your abilities to succeed. Can I Make an Online Vision Board? In the past, you needed to physically construct a vision board, typically using a large piece of poster board....
If you’re not sure, read on. Let’s say you’re in an intense romantic relationship, and you love being with your significant other. When things are good, they’re extraordinary. However, there are occasions you just can’t stand being around this person, and you have such a strong dislike for him or her that you wonder why you’re in the relationship at all. Your loving, tender moments devolve into hurtful words and regrettable behaviors....
There is such intensity around the other person that we become psychologically and biologically smitten. Hormones and other brain chemicals are released, ensuring that you will be blissfully happy and a bit stressed at the start. You spend long nights talking and hours in each other’s company. But time erodes all things. Life challenges and personality quirks emerge, and eventually, you wonder, am I settling in my relationship? What Does It Mean to Settle in a Relationship?...
When you’re in love, you’re eager to express to your partner the depth of your emotions. You want your partner to know how much you love him or her, but it can be hard to come up with the right words. Fortunately, many writers, mystics, and thought leaders have given us the gift of good love quotes and cute sayings that you can share with your partner or craft into your own words....
Sometimes you can read something or have a life experience that hits you over the head with its brilliance and perfection. A huge mind shift takes place, and your life is forever altered for the better. These can be years in the making or overnight sensations. I’ve had my share of both, and even the overnight sensations can take years to fully assimilate in my psyche. But the important thing is the discovery of these concepts and how you apply them to your life....
You don’t have to be antisocial to be better suited to jobs that require little (if any) social interaction. If you’re an introvert, social interaction drains you of energy more quickly. And for any full-time job, you need all the energy you can get. If that got your attention, read on to learn about the 21 best jobs for people who hate people (figuratively speaking). Jobs that Don’t Require Human Interaction Where do you find jobs that don’t deal with people?...
It can inspire you to see something you hadn’t seen before and stop making excuses for the abuse you’ve suffered. It can also help you stop blaming yourself. We’ve collected 29 powerful quotes about emotional abuse to facilitate your healing and inner strength. Take note of the ones that feel most meaningful for you. What Is the Cycle of Emotional Abuse? When people talk about the cycle of emotional abuse, they’re usually referring to the following four stages: When the abused confronts the abuser after an incident of abuse, the abuser typically resorts to one of two options: Apologizes and makes amends, leading to reconciliation and a honeymoon period, orGaslights the abused partner until the latter loses confidence in their own judgment....
There’s plenty of fun to be had right in your living room — with the added benefit of saving a few bucks and a few hours getting ready. A night in just might be the perfect solution when going out isn’t in the cards. Whether you’ve had a stressful week at work, or you need to gather your friends in a private space for some relationship advice, a girls’ night at home is the best way to spend quality time with your besties....
Between a pandemic, political upheaval, social unrest, and natural disasters, it seems the world is spinning out of control. Some of the relaxing activities you’ve done in the past may not be options for you now given the state of things. Life feels fraught with uncertainty and many are experiencing a sudden loss of work, income, physical health, and mental well-being. You may wonder, “How can I destress myself instantly so I don’t feel so constantly overwhelmed?...
And yet, it doesn’t often (or ever) occur to you to look for passive-aggressive phrases for personal motivation. But maybe if you had your own personal collection of mug-worthy quotes from (or about) passive-aggressive people, that would change. Because, most of the time, snark and sarcasm totally beat getting punched in the face. What are Passive-Aggressive Comments? We’re not saying passive-aggressive comments can’t be annoying — even maddening. Part of you screams, “If you have a problem with me, just SAY IT!...
But reading for pleasure is a habit you should consider picking up, even if you aren’t a voracious lover of books. There is so much valuable information and inspiration hidden in books, both fiction and nonfiction. Between old classics and books that have recently hit the shelves, there’s a lot to learn and enjoy from the minds of other people. You may be surprised at the many science-backed benefits of reading books:...
Turn-ons are often about the little things you notice in someone’s behavior. Sometimes, they don’t even make sense. And what catches your attention might fly under the radar for someone else. In most cases, though, it’s a lot easier to know what will turn someone on when you get to know them. And what you learn might surprise you. So, what are the most common turn-ons? What Are Turn-Ons? If someone is attracted to a specific trait, gesture, or habit, that’s one of their turn-ons....
It’s a fun game that helps you get to know your friends and family better than you might want to! When it comes to fun games, this one is easy to start and hard to beat. All it takes is at least two people to play the questions game — but the more, the merrier. How to Play This Questions Game With a Group Sometimes known as a drinking game, you don’t have to drink alcohol to play — especially if you’re playing it with underage kids....
You’ve written long paragraphs for him before, and he treasures them. Some days, though, your tired brain just can’t string the right words together. So, on those days, look through this list of love paragraphs for him, and find the ones that say just what you want to say. It’s only cheating if you don’t mean them. 51 Long Paragraphs for Him to Copy and Paste Enjoy this long list of paragraphs for him to copy, paste, and treasure....
