Who among us doesn’t benefit from some help in this area — at least sometimes? I know I do. When my kids were younger, it was so easy to start a friendly conversation with other parents waiting at the preschool, grocery shopping with their little ones, or stopping at the library for books. Now that my kids are adults, and I work from home, my social muscle doesn’t get nearly as much exercise....
If you identify as one, you might be inclined to weigh in on this. Or you might just keep your thoughts to yourself and see if any part of this post makes sense. We’ve identified nine surprising (or, at the very least, interesting) traits shared by private people everywhere. If you’re a private person (or you know someone who is), we think you may recognize yourself in some of these behaviors and choices....
Here you are, thinking, “How do I stop loving a married man?” You know this thing between you can lead to nothing but pain. But letting go of someone you’re in love with is not as easy as saying, “It’s over,” and immediately forgetting what you felt. You’re not a robot. You can’t delete your feelings — even when they hurt. You still want him so badly that the ache is making it hard to focus on anything else....
If you’re anything like me, not only do you have a hard time quieting your mind after a busy day to fall asleep, but you also find yourself getting up several times throughout the night. Perhaps daytime stress or an anxiety disorder makes it more difficult to get the sleep you need, leaving you even more anxious during the day when you aren’t well-rested. This creates a cycle that can turn into debilitating long-term bought of insomnia....
Academic interest in the topic, however, fluctuates. But every couple of centuries, someone relights the physiognomy flame. Which is where we now find ourselves. Some folks balk at the practice, deeming it pseudo-scientific. But recent research suggests there may be a verifiable, biological link between facial features and personality. So today, we’re unpacking the facts and attempting to answer the question: Can you read someone’s personality by their face?...
The spark between the two of you has faded, and you wonder if it was ever really there. You look at him or her and realize that, at the moment, you have zero interest in intimacy. It’s like you’re dead down there. And you don’t even mind. What happened? What has changed since the days when you could hardly wait to be back in the same space together? You think you might be falling out of love with your spouse or partner....
“Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson There’s nothing like good old-fashioned failure to send your self-confidence into a nose dive. I’m not talking about the little flubs and foibles of life. I’m talking big, fat, fall-on-your-face failure. Failure like . . . getting fired from your job; loosing a major account; flunking the final exam; forgetting your big speech; your business going belly-up; your marriage ending; not following through on a major goal; making poor life choices that hurt yourself or others....
I’ve come to the conclusion that life is short, and if you think or feel something positive about another person, you should tell them — even if it creates an awkward moment. For me, it seems like a waste of good karma to allow loving, positive thoughts to remain locked up in my mind. Why not express them and give someone a boost and put a smile on their face?...
To have empathy, you must put yourself in another person’s shoes — to feel what they are feeling and seek to understand their perspective. You must step outside of your own needs and feelings to be present and engaged with someone else. Empathy calls for patience, active listening, intimacy, and selflessness. It requires a generous and giving spirit and a true desire to sit with someone in their most difficult moments or share in their most joyous accomplishments....
Our tightly-packed schedules and the transient nature of society doesn’t allow enough time to build a friendship past an acquaintance level. People come into your life who you consider good friends at the time, but often friendships fade once whatever brought you together ends. Maybe you meet at work and become close, but once one of you moves on, the friendship goes too. Or, perhaps you move to a new city and leave behind a lot of contacts without staying in touch....
Curious people feel compelled to find answers, understand more profound meanings, and learn as much as possible about people and the world around them. And while curiosity can make life more interesting, there are a few caveats to consider. That’s why we’ve created this list of 11 characteristics of a curious person. Read on to see if anyone comes to mind. What Does It Mean to be a Curious Person?...
You cheated on your partner, and you feel like garbage about it. Your pain is real, and you wake up every day wondering, “Will I ever forgive myself for cheating?” You might think you should confess to your spouse and hope for forgiveness. But wait. This could be a bad move. Dumping this information on the person who loves you could be cruel. Your best bet could be forgiving yourself for cheating while leaving your partner out of it....
Dynamic people have a way of gaining attention without seeking it. They are ahead of trends, forward thinkers, and just all-around exuberant people. These people reflect a “joie de vivre” that seems effortless and natural, making us wonder how some of it can rub off on us. Whether you find their dynamism compelling or annoying, there’s something to learn from dynamic people and how they approach life. What Is a Dynamic Person?...
You can say the same about creating and maintaining a healthy, intimate relationship with your significant other. It requires two people willing to be vulnerable, share their feelings and thoughts, communicate effectively, and support one another. While there is no surefire recipe for building the perfect relationship, certain ingredients are essential for creating a strong, intimate bond. Let’s learn more about interdependent relationships, what they are, and how you can create one with your partner....
But the truth is, there are plenty of benefits to being reserved and many ways to thrive in life with a personality that is more reserved than others. It can be hard to be the quiet one in the group, mainly because people assume something is wrong and you’re upset or that you’re quietly judging them. But if you are reserved, you know it’s just because you enjoy listening to other people have a conversation and prefer to give input only when you believe it’s useful or necessary....
Saying “I love you” is easy enough, but it doesn’t celebrate all the things you love about him. Those three words are still important. They just don’t pack the same punch. And the last time you tried to sing to him, well . . . did his eye always twitch like that? Good thing you can share any of the following love poems for your husband without breaking into song....
Why do people need self-awareness activities? Because it’s nearly impossible to progress in most areas of your life without becoming more self-aware. For most individuals, self-awareness doesn’t come naturally. Self-awareness takes practice and hard work, and that’s where self-awareness activities and self-awareness worksheets come into play. Are you ready to take the journey to greater self-awareness? Read on. What Is Self-Awareness? When a person is self-aware, they can understand and identify their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors....
The people you love. Your friends and family. I know this is true for me. My relationships are everything. The desire to connect and share deep love is so basic to the human experience that we literally can’t survive without it. Take a moment to think of the people in your life whom you love. Your spouse. Your children. Your parents. Your friends. Your extended family. Think of each person, one-by-one, and contemplate all the ways they expand love in your life....
Or maybe you’re getting ready for the big break. Whichever the case, you’ve experienced the darkness of dating someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and now you’re ready to bolt. Today, we’re unpacking how narcissists treat their exes to help you prepare for what’s coming next. Specifically, we’re diving into nine ways people with NPD behave after a romantic split. Psychological researchers have identified several types of narcissists, but they all have similar traits....
We’re talking about an unemotional man who only acts this way when he’s head over heels. If you’re dating an emotionally unavailable man, you know what’s normal for him. He doesn’t let people in. But you’ve been picking up signs he’s trying to meet you halfway. Read on to learn about nine telltale signs an emotionally unavailable man is in love with you. And learn what makes that more likely to happen....
