Counting down the average length of a relationship before a breakup is not one of those things. In fact, many people worry about the 3-month relationship freak-out, where they or the other person could call it quits. Is there any truth to this 12-week dating boot camp? What Is the 3-Month Rule in Dating? While the rule isn’t formally written down in any dating bible, it’s said to be the “make it or break it” milestone of any relationship....
In fact, research has proven that regularly practicing affirmations has many mental and physical benefits, including decreasing stress and rumination, boosting feelings of optimism, and strengthening resilience. They can even help improve performance in sports, academics, and career endeavors. What are positive affirmations? Affirmations are positive statements or mantras that you repeat to yourself, either silently or out loud. They are intended to help you reach a goal, change a mindset, improve self-esteem, boost your confidence, or improve your health....
Some people think that it is a fun way of playing with dominance and submission, while others seem to think it is just a pet name or a way of turning on your man in the bedroom. Other people find it too creepy to align your lover with a father-daughter relationship. So, do guys like being called “Daddy,” and if so, why? 13 Possible Reasons Why Guys Like Being Called Daddy So why do some men like to be called Daddy?...
That depends on who you are and what’s at stake. Chances are, if nothing is keeping you apart, you’ll eventually admit your attraction and grow closer to each other. Because, whatever people tell you about the importance of having compatible beliefs, worldviews, and habits, chemistry is essential, too. So, how exactly do you recognize it when it’s there? What Is Unspoken Attraction? Whether you’re talking about unspoken attraction at work or an unspoken attraction between friends, the evidence is pretty much the same, though the first signs of it may differ....
It’s usually there when we’re sidelining empathy to protect ourselves from being hurt or to punish someone else for making us feel small. It gets in the way of listening and understanding. Humility doesn’t come naturally. Pride and selfishness, on the other hand… easy as breathing. So, we’ve collected 29 humility quotes from people who’ve learned the vital importance of putting love and understanding before ego. 29 Humility Quotes to Awaken Your Best Self “Humility will open more doors than arrogance ever will....
“So, I hear you have a special love for bees.” And you’re off and running. This could be the start of a unique and lasting friendship. Even if you don’t know their particular leanings, though, the likes and dislikes list in this post will give you plenty of ideas. 311 Likes and Dislikes We’ve broken up this list into two to focus separately on common likes and dislikes. That said, what one person likes might repel another, and vice-versa....
(I couldn’t even type this title without stopping to get a glass of water.) Whether you’re drinking it, soaking in it, or letting its waves wash over your feet, water is the driving force of life itself. And you love it — even if, for now, it’s disguised as your favorite caffeinated drink. So, why not take a moment to enjoy some soothing water quotes. Relax, and allow the words to flow through you, refresh you, and remind you of what you can’t live without....
And once in a relationship, people tend to assume that their partner knows their innermost thoughts and feelings. Even if one establishes a deep bond with someone, there are still things we do not know for sure until we hear them. And the words, I love you, are at the top of that list. But there are simple, everyday acts of kindness that communicate love and respect and tell him how much you love him....
Difficult questions have a way of throwing you off balance. The best way to prepare for them is to consider some of the hardest questions and answer them for yourself. To that end, welcome to our collection of 65 hard questions to answer. Start with one you’ve had trouble answering in the past. The next time you hear it, you’ll have an answer ready. What Is The Hardest Question Ever?...
We all go through it at least once, and it stings like a swarm. And though it feels like being run over by a stampede of buffalo, experiencing betrayal is an integral part of living — because all human emotions help us grow and become better people. So today, we’re looking at the betrayal of trust quotes. If you’re going through a challenging time because of someone else’s duplicity or disloyalty, we hope you find our list of broken trust quotes soothing....
The relationship has not yet reached the point of sexual intimacy, but a deep emotional bond has developed nonetheless. Although people should have emotionally supportive friendships beyond their romantic partners, emotionally cheating has a secretive element, just like a sexual affair. The person does not want the spouse or partner to know about the outside relationship because it feels unfaithful. In fact, emotional cheating often leads to a full-blown sexual affair....
Do you ever wish for that? We merrily (or sometimes stoically) move through our days and weeks and years — following our plan, doing our thing, pursuing our goals. And then one day, one normal day . . . WHAM BLAM BOOM! Life smacks you upside the head with something totally unexpected — something not so good. It could be a relatively minor event . . . The interview is cancelled for the job you really wanted....
At some point, if you live long enough, someone will do or say something that hurts you. And when you’re in pain or deeply offended, it’s not so easy to just brush it off. But if you’ve ever held onto your anger and held a grudge against the one who hurt you, then you know how much more pain it creates for you. It solves nothing. It heals nothing. You’re just stuck, and the more you hold onto your anger — justifying it and defending it against all reasons to let it go — the more miserable you become....
You’re unsure where the sweet spot is between acting desperate and being a detached ice queen. How do you know if you’re playing hard to get or just pushing him away? And if you don’t know the difference, how will he? All you want is to be yourself and get to know him better, too. So, how can playing hard to get help you with that? Or can it? What Does It Mean to Play Hard to Get with a Guy?...
Maybe you feel too shy or uncomfortable to say what you think or feel, and you long to be confident enough to speak up. Or maybe you believe others will see you as rude or controlling when you stand up for yourself. It may seem easier to take a back seat and go with the flow to avoid potential conflict, but the truth is that relinquishing all of the power to others can cause you increased feelings of stress and anxiety....
But what if it were just as easy to start conversations with people you don’t know yet? Who wouldn’t love that? Small talk probably doesn’t come to mind when someone asks you what you love to do, but once you learn what to say to start a conversation, you might just take small talk off the list of things you dread. Once you know how to have a conversation with anyone — using the tips and topics in this article — you won’t have to dread social events with people you don’t know (or don’t know well)....
If so, you’ve got plenty of company. In fact, overthinking in relationships is so common that you can probably think of a TV series or movie character who does what you do. Maddening, right? You hate what it’s doing to your relationship. But what can you do to stop yourself from doing it? And what if the opposite (underthinking?) is even worse? What Is Overthinking a Symptom Of? Here you are thinking, “Why do I overthink relationships?...
Can you relate? Have you ever come home from a long day and thought to yourself: “Why don’t I like people? Why do I find them so irritating? Is something wrong with me?” If so, don’t worry – you’re not alone. Most of us feel the same way; we’re just too afraid or shy to admit it. And it’s not necessarily because we are introverts or don’t know how to socialize....
It’s a common complaint. In manageable situations, breaking this habit is a matter of retooling your spousal dynamics. More extreme circumstances may lead to aggressive gaslighting. Whichever the case, learning how to talk to someone who turns everything around is a valuable skill, both personally and professionally. To that end, today, we’re focusing on husbands who blame their spouses for everything instead of maturely admitting they’re wrong. Why do they do it?...
Do you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around him, never knowing when he will lash out? Unfortunately, you’re not alone. Many women find themselves in relationships with men who resort to yelling as a way to express themselves. It creates an environment of fear, anxiety, and insecurity for you and your children if you have any. So it’s essential to understand why your husband is yelling at you and what you can do to stop it....
