None of the traits you named were 100% positive, but none were negative, either. The best word to describe them would be “neutral.” You like to think your delivery was neutral, too, but it probably wasn’t. (It’s hard to hide those feelings.) Neutral personality traits can make others think you have an enigmatic personality. Maybe you’re trying to hide something, or you like appearing mysterious. But that’s not always the case. Sometimes neutral just fits the moment. So what exactly are these traits? And how can you use them to your advantage?
What Are Neutral Personality Traits?
If someone has ever described you with a word that’s usually considered positive but added the phrase, “to a fault,” they’re probably using a neutral personality trait. Neutral traits are neither always good nor always bad. They can be harmful or beneficial, depending on the circumstances and on their degree. As you’ll see in the list below, neutral traits can either draw you closer to a person or make you run in the opposite direction. Consider the following examples:
Honesty can be good in some situations; in others, it can do harm. The rightness or value of obedience depends on the person or rule you’re obeying. Silence or reserve can come from strength, but it can also come from cowardice.
With growth and maturity, neutral traits show more of their positive potential.
What Are Neutral Character Traits?
People often confuse personality traits with character traits. Your character has to do with who you are on the inside, while your personality is what people can see without knowing you to your core. They see it in how you project yourself and in the actions you take. Or, to put it another way, character is who you are while personality is what you do. It might be obvious to strangers that you’re funny (personality) when you’re cracking jokes and making people laugh. But those who know you best can see beyond the outward humor to the character traits behind it. Because of this, they’re more likely to know how you use that sense of humor (character) when you think no one’s looking. Consider these humor-related neutral character traits:
Sarcastic Pessimistic Self-deprecating Lighthearted Optimistic
It’s worth noting, too, that even someone who’s used their humor at another’s expense can learn to choose a different and more helpful use for it. In other words, your character can change as you grow. It can also deteriorate. Because character is as much about the choices you make, based on your morals and beliefs, as about your core tendencies. And the more society rewards you for your character traits (i.e., positive reinforcement), the more likely you will hold onto them.
99 Neutral Personality Traits
Look through the following list of neutral personality traits, keeping in mind how each one might manifest differently in two people with opposing beliefs or attitudes. Think of the different tones you might hear in someone’s voice when they describe someone they’ve just met with one of these words. Absentminded Adventurous Agreeable Aloof Amiable Ambitious Antisocial Anxious Artful Ascetic Asocial Big-thinking Breezy Businesslike Busy Calm or Placid Carefree Casual Charismatic Chummy Circumspect Competitive Complex or Complicated Conservative Creative Crisp Curious Determined Devoted or Constant Dominating Dreamy Driven Droll or Dry Earthy Effeminate Emotional Enigmatic Even-tempered Extraverted Flirtatious Folksy Formal Freewheeling Frugal Funny or Witty Generous 13 Signs You’re A Submissive Woman In Your Relationship 29 Spot-On Signs You Have An Intense Personality 11 Reasons She Hits You and How To Deal With It Glamorous Guileless High-spirited Honest Hurried Hypnotic Iconoclastic Idiosyncratic Immaculate Impassive Impulsive or Rash Intense Introverted Irreverent Loquacious or Talkative Maternal Mellow Meticulous Mystical Noncompetitive Obedient Old-fashioned Open-minded Outspoken or Gregarious Playful Political Precise Predictable Preoccupied Private Progressive Proud Questioning Reserved Restrained Retiring Rough Secretive Self-conscious Serious Skeptical Soft or Sentimental Solemn or Quiet Solitary Stern or Strict Stubborn Stylish Tough Unchanging Uninhibited Unpredictable Unsentimental Whimsical
How to Use This List of Neutral Personality Traits
What can you do with a list of neutral personality traits?
Identify your own neutral traits and explore their potential Describe each of your closest friends using some of these words. Describe rivals, antagonists, or frenemies using some of these words. Freewrite a job interview where some of these words come up. If you’re a writer, create characters whose impact is a mystery until near the end.
The better you know yourself and your own personality traits, the more you can cultivate the character traits you want to make the most of what you have. Self-awareness is your friend.
Which neutral personality traits describe you?
Now that you know what neutral personality traits are and how they differ from character traits, which of the above traits have others used to describe you? Or which have you used to describe others? And what tone or facial expressions went along with the words you chose? (No judgment, here.) Think of a fictional character that exhibits some of these traits and imagine different outcomes if these traits had manifested in the best and worst possible ways. Then imagine if that character was you.
